Friday, May 25, 2007

So . . .

. . . that's finished. I made it through my differentiation interview, so I am now officially a PhD student! After the meeting, I cycled home (again, through insane traffic--where on earth is everyone going at 3 in the afternoon?) and, since Gwen is working, celebrated alone--first with a wee nap. Is it obvious that I'm now 53 years old? Before lying down I put in a load of cycling clothes to wash and then hung them on the line when I got up. When it seemed like they'd dried all they were going to, with evening coming on, I brought them in and no sooner got them arranged on the drying rack than the skies opened and we got a gully-washer of a shower that lasted about 15 minutes. Now the sun's shining again and life goes on as before. Timing's everything, right?

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Happy day


Born in '54; now entering my 54th year . . .
Gwen came back from an outing to a nursery last evening with a birthday present for me. I can't think of anything nicer (as a Rex Stout fan and all). The only problem will be having to give it up to a good home when we leave.
I also got a NYTimes Crossword book from the kids--stashed away since their visit at Christmas. It's a good job they did ask their Mom to hide it. After Friday (my differentiation--the biggie that determines whether I will continue with my studies), I should feel less guilt doing crosswords than I would have earlier.
Thanks to everyone who emailed for all the good wishes!

Assorted musings about our month of canadian company

I am sure that even the most devoted of friends will not attempt to read all these musings but I wanted to write down our activities so they will not be lost from our memories. March 26-28 we had a friend from Caronport come for a visit with her daughter who is studying in England. The first day we rented a car and went up to see the Giant's Causeway, Dunluce Castle, a walk on White park Bay and went home via the Glens of Atrium and the coastal drive. We stopped for tea at our mutual friends in Broughshane. The next day we explored the Cathedrals in Armagh and went home by the Mourne Mtns. April 4-6 our neighbour from Caronport and a fellow student she was studying with in Germany included us in their world-wind tour of Europe. We tried out public transport and spent the day on trains and buses exploring Londonderry, Giant's Causeway, Port Rush strand and Coleraine rose gardens. The next day it was biking on the Lagan Tow path. That weekend was Easter and we had 11 people over for Sunday dinner - we even had an egg hunt in the back garden along with bird whistling. On April 12 my sister Marilyn arrived - we initated her with a 80 minute round trip walk to Lisburn and an extensive visit of Parkside care Home - she almost met every resident. I hate to admit that one grandma thought that she was my daughter which was impossible because Marilyn is 14 months older than me! The next day we went to Hilden Brewery and had a traditional Irish meal by the fireside in an old Linen baron's estate. We picked up the rental car and went for a ride to see Armagh and went south to Monaghan which is in The Republic of Ireland. We had a coastal drive and ended up at Newcastle to have a late picnic on the shore viewing the Mourne Mountains. Marilyn thought that the weather was not really ideal for the picnic and we ate quickly and rushed back to the car to defrost. April 14th we had a private tour of Hillsbourgh Castle - the Queen's official residence in Ireland. We got to sit on the throne and Marilyn inherited a piece of Tyrone crystal with the Hillsbourgh design on it. That afternoon we went up to Londonderry and dear old Donnegal! What a drive - Dunfanaghy, Horn Head, Sheephaven and the Atlantic drive. The countryside was very rugged and beautiful and the road dangerous! We slept overnight in Port Rush at a friend's summer house. The next day we went to Dunluce castle, Bushmills, Giant's causeway and walked on the strand and saw a sunset. the next day we drove back the scenic route and stopped at our friends in Broughshane for tea. April 16-18 Marilyn and Gwen went to Paris - Paris in the spring - the weather was amazing! We saw all the tourist things - Louve, Eiffel Tower, Arch D'Triumph, Notre Dame, Champ Elysee, and the modern Grand Arc where we went on a tower to view the city. Marilyn enjoyed here shopping - we had numerous meals at outdoor cafes and enjoyed the wonderful orchestras and performers in the Metro. April 19 - we relaxed(sort of) and went into Lisburn to shop - Marilyn was surprised to find that we didn't have to walk into Lisburn and that we could practically get there from our doorstep to the main street via public transportation! it was the only time I've ever had a round trip bus ride to Lisburn. Marilyn loved the charity shops! That evening we spent out on IslandMagee at a very old (1630 country Presbyterian church were our friend Karen Campbell was ordained - we got on the bus at 5:30 pm and didn't get home till after midnight. The service was wonderful- the music amazing and the food the best church supper I've had In Northern Ireland - served in the pew on Royal Doulton china. April 20th - picked up the car rental and took Marilyn to airport for her trip back to Canada. No time to rest - my brother Dan and his wife Viola arrived the next morning at 7 am. We picked them up and came home for scones and tea - they had a short nap and we were off to Hillsbourgh and walked around the lake and explored the old fort, we went out to the country and walked up the backside of Slieve Croob from which you can see the Irish sea and the Mourne Mtns. We drove around the country taking in the lush green landscape and stopped to see Legananny Dolman on the way home. April 22 - we went to our local Presbyterian church in the morning and then went down to Armagh and went to the RC Catherdral and heard a wonderful international choir recital. It was our 29th wedding anniversary so we celebrated as usual with a picnic in the Mall-greens in Armagh. The only rainy day in the whole month of Canadian visitors was April 23 - we drove to Londonderry and up to Donnegal on the coastal road up to Malin Head - we stopped at the northern most Pub in Ireland - very small and full of entertaining locals - all 5 of them! Dan said that it was the smallest pub he had ever seen. We talked to one of the men who was a fisherman and he told us that we could buy fresh lobster and crab from the local fisheries co-op. We came home via the Magilligan ferry with live seafood in our boot! We stopped for a walk on the Benone Strand and then had a feast of seafood fit for a king! We stayed over night at our friend's summer home in PortRush. April 24 - we went to Dunluce castle, Bushmills, and a long walk on the top of the Giant's Causeway. We came home for a meal and then headed out and walked from Dunseverick Castle remains into sheep pastures and down to the coast to a tiny coastal village where we saw a group of seals and walked on the rocky coast till we came to White Park Bay. Dan was still in the mood for walking so Randy, Vi and Dan walked to the Carrickarade Rope Bridge - I stayed in the car which turned out to be a brilland idea because just as they got over to the island it poured buckets and they had a 25 minute walk back. We have pictures of them pouring water out of their runners and squeezing water out of there soaked apparel! Straight home for the soaked rats - well actually we drove through the Glens of Atrium past the Vanishing lake but it was so foggy that we were happy to be able to see the road! April 25 - We borrowed bikes and Dan and Viola had an adventure biking into Belfast on the tow path - they even made a visit to to Irish centre on Falls road. April 26 we went once again to the Downpatrick, Strangford, and then the coastal road down to Newcastle - we stopped at Ardglass and bought fresh cod which we cooked at our friend's summer home in Newcastle. Dan and Viola took a break and went off by themselves for a couple days to explore the Mourne Mtns and climb Slieve Donard and stay at our friends summer home - so thankful for generous friends! April 27 th was a special day - my best childhood friend came for a visit with her husband. I was so thrilled to spend the day with them and so thankful that we didn't scare them off with all the company we have had. April 28th - we picked up a friend I worked with back in Canada and a friend from Shellbrook. We had a tour of Parkside care home, went Biking on the Tow path and spent the afternoon at a fun fair in Lady Dickson Park known for it's beautiful gardens. The flowers were amazing. Dan and Vi came home and we went out to Portadown to have a meal with friends. Got up and made scones and served tea on my china dishes and it was off for Dan, Vi and Gwen to explore the south and find family! Randy stayed home to get caught up on his studies - the problem was that I had left Cathy and Laurie because they were staying for a couple more days - the short story is that Randy rented a car and gave up studies for chauffeur duties. April 29 - we went to Dublin, Gendalough, New Grange and arrived in New Ross, Wexford that evening. We went out for a late supper at the Brandon Hill Hotel - it was fun for us because our father was born in Brandon Hills Manitoba Canada! We stayed at a great country hostel - the road there was rough and narrow. The hostel was a converted chicken coop - it was terrific. When I looked out my window the next morning at 4:30 am there was a sheep around 3 feet from my window - bleating for my attention. That day we visited with our father's cousin's son - Bobbie and his wife Julie. Dan had met Bobbie 36 years ago when he was in Ireland touring on his motorcycle after completing his university. Lovely to met family - in the evening we went to met their son and his wife and their little boy. During the day we saw Dunbrody Abbey, drove by JFK memorial more than a few times, and went off to the Hook head and saw the world's oldest operating lighthouse. on our way home we stopped at a port were there was a fishing trolley coming in with it's week's catch. I asked if I could buy some fish and they gave me a big cod and a whiting fish which I passed on to our relatives to enjoy! May 1 we walked the tow path by Brandon Hill and then went to Rock of Cashel and Hore Abbey .We were able to see where our great grandparents (Waylands) were buried in White Church. We met up with a relative John Fryday he took us to Dundrum to see where the Frydays were buried. When we were talking he mentioned that he remembered visiting in Winnipeg when he was young - he said Jack and Mae Fryday - guess what I also remember visiting them when I was young! I was able to see where my grandma Prowse grew up. The place that we stayed in Cashel was wonderful - we had a lovely homemade meal and also made a dessert to share when our relatives John and Sheila came for a visit. The next day we looked around Tipperary in the morning and then went to John and Sheila's for a wonderful roast ham and chicken feast. It was so nice to meet one of their daughters and granddaughters. John and Sheila had 15 children! Sheila sent home some fresh rhubarb from her garden and we got in the car and drove straight home to Lisburn without even a pit stop. ( Around 5 hour drive) Yes it's a long way to Tipperary! May 3 - Dan and Viola left to go to Germany and I had a long sleep - thankful for all the opportunities and adventures this last month had given me.

Sunday, May 20, 2007

Songs in the night

Early this morning we were lying in our bed with the not-so-faint (!) sound of songbirds ringing through our open window - it was 4:30 am. The latitude of Belfast is 54 degrees and Moose Jaw is 50 degrees so the sun rises early and doesn't set till past 10 pm. There is one bird that does an imitation of a police siren - must have been an old bird that had lived through the "troubles". We are off to church - so glad that it is only a 5 minute walk!

Thursday, May 17, 2007

In our back garden


I caught Gwen out in her blue jammies under the blue tree in our back garden. It's so private that there's no problem sneaking out dressed like this to hang up some clothes or get something from the freezer in the garage. That should be "garage": it's great as a storage place, but you would never be able to get a car into it--or at least would never be able to get out of the car if you ever did get it in.

I've been trying (unsuccessfully) to make friends with the neighbour's cat. He feels quite welcome in our back garden and on our front step, but he doesn't care to acknowledge that we live here. He was basking in the sun today, lying on his back until we tried to get a picture. The wind made him look rather ruffled for this portrait.

Saturday, May 12, 2007

The blessing of Motherhood

We have mail delivery on Saturday. Just as I was getting up I heard something drop through our mail slot. It was a Mother's Day card from Jen in Canada. I love the way she is able to express herself in word - she almost always make me cry and laugh simultaneously! I am so thankful for Jen and Jon - they have brought so much joy and love into my life and I am very proud of them. As a dutiful big sister Jen wrote a little note from Jon knowing that he would be out in the bush in Prince George and wouldn't be near a phone or computer to send his own greetings. Jen sent a note to Randy to get him to pick up chocolates and flowers. When we got home from Lisburn we sat down to a steamer and some wonderful chocolate truffles - does life get any better than that!

Day out with my friend

Yesterday morning my friend picked me up and said that we could go wherever I would like. For some strange reason I've wanted to go and see the Tayto Crisp factory( Crisps are potato chips) in Tadragee. It is based in a castle and is very popular with the school groups - I think it has something to do with the free samples and give aways. On our way there we found a wonderful place for lunch out in the country just on the outskirts of Banbridge. It was a bakery/cafe and the food was amazing! We also stopped at a pottery shop that was based in an old Linen Factory. I can't believe the # of Linen mills there were in this area. When we finally found the Tayto Castle they told us that they didn't have tours on Friday afternoon. We decided to go and find the Bronte family home and the museum was listed as open - well the scenery around the Bronte Homeland is beautiful but the museum and church were not opened. The good thing is that we didn't have admission charges and actually it was almost as good just to be able to see the countryside. We stopped in to the new outlet mall on the way home and had tea. I am so thankful for friends - life is so much richer because of them.

Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Nothing like trying to get caught up!

I'm still overwhelmed trying to think back at what we have done in the last month. Poor Randy has tries to keep his nose in the books but has not always been successful! He became the expert at driving the car-hire on the narrow winding roads and only found time to read when Gwen would take the visitors on expeditions while Randy sat and read in the car. Randy must not have been too anxious to get back to studies because it wasn't hard to persuade him to come with friends this last Saturday to Omagh to visit the American Ulster Folk museum. This museum is very well done and had people dressed in period costumes. We had a great picnic and went home through the Sperrin Mountains and stopped in a wee village to see a 12th century celtic high cross. The weather has been very sunny for the last month but since the company has gone it's back to overcast with spotty showers. I guess it's true we all need a little sunshine and rain!

Time flies

There - I finally did it! You know how you put things on your list to do and keep putting off doing them? We wanted to work on our blog but there has been so many things to do and the further behind we got the less appealing the job became. We had 6 sets on Canadian company in one month and have been enjoying life as tour guides and B&B hosts. I'm not sure how we can write all the fun things we have done but I think that I'll tell you about our most recent outing - the floral fair at Lambeg Parish Church. It was a 4 day event and the floral displays were based on spiritual themes - amazing arrangements of orchids, roses, exotic flowers and every kind of flower you could imagine. They were masterpieces - some 6-7 feet high and just as wide. We have certainly enjoyed a year of constant flowers - I don't think that there has been a time this year that I haven't had fresh flowers in our house. Those are the joys of living in a more temperate climate.